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We’ve all heard stories of people who try and try to find love, finally give up, and then suddenly meet the perfect partner.
Have you ever wondered why this happens?
There are two reasons, and each of them involves your chakras.
First, let me explain that chakras are far more than the woo-woo “energy centers” some consider them to be. They are in fact part of an intelligent energetic system that guides and directs your desires, thoughts, feelings, memories, and all the energy you have.
Why You Need Plenty of Energy in Reserve
Any extra energy you may have is stored in your reserves, which are located in a certain part of the chakra system called the chakra reservoir. Every chakra has one.
If your energy reserves are too low, it’s unlikely you’ll be able to find a compatible partner. If you do, you might never connect—because at the end of the day, you simply don’t have enough vitality to give to the new relationship.
In fact, both individuals need to have enough energy in reserve to maintain the relationship through the initial honeymoon stage, which tends to require a lot of energy and attention, and then through the inevitable ups and downs that follow.
If you spend all your energy looking for a relationship, then of course you won’t have enough left to sustain one. When you finally give up the search, your energy reserves have a chance to replenish. Potential partners sense your growing vitality, which makes you more attractive. Now you’re more likely to not only find love, but also hold on to it.
Why You Need a Long, Healthy Heart Chakra
The second reason people tend to find partners once they let go is that their desire no longer works against them. Focusing on your own availability and desire for love turns your energy inward. Your attention is on yourself. YOU want a partner. You want someone to love you. You want someone to share your life with you.
This attitude tends to shorten your heart chakra.
To find a compatible partner, it helps to have a long, healthy heart chakra that portrays your true nature. It must reflect the quality of your feelings, thoughts, and beingness, including how well you give and receive. Otherwise, even the perfect partner might not recognize you.
Of course, people with shortened or even flattened heart chakras still find partners. But these relationships tend to be short-lived. They may work at first, but in time, they become rife with misunderstanding, failed expectations, and poor communication. The couple’s chakras simply weren’t long enough when they met to fully convey the truth about who they were and what they were capable of giving to a relationship.
Most likely, their attraction was based on other chakras besides the heart. Perhaps the initial connection was intellectual, of shared interests, or simply physical.
A short heart chakra gives only a brief and insufficient summary of who a person is—hardly enough information to attract a lasting, loving relationship.
Deepening a Relationship
The same principle holds true for taking a good relationship to the next step. If you have a long heart chakra, it means that you know yourself well. You know what you think and feel and are comfortable with your memories. You’re flexible, willing to adapt, and okay with who you are, but you want a deeper connection with your mate.
If that person also has a long heart chakra, it’s very likely you’ll both enjoy the deeper connection that develops mentally, emotionally, and physically.
But you both also need to have well-established energy reserves so that you can handle any potential setbacks that occur as the relationship grows. Your reserves give you the energy to physically and emotionally deal with the challenges your partner might suffer, to support them when needed, and to love them unconditionally.
Taking Control of Your Chakras
Chakras and chakra reservoirs can be measured to find out how healthy they are. Then, they can be vitalized and strengthened so that you can get to know what you truly want and attract the person who will be most compatible for you. At the same time, you can gather the energy you need to give your very best to the relationship—without being drained or making bad decisions that can ultimately lead to a breakup.
This is why your chakras are excellent indicators of relationship readiness.
Applied Chakra Analysis
Using Applied Chakra Analysis, you can evaluate each chakra’s direction, length, strength, and shape, and assess the meanings of any anomalies you find. The information you gain will help you understand how chakra anomalies affect your health, or that of your clients or patients.
Learn how to work with your own chakras in my new six-week course, GDI 122: The Applied Chakra Analysis Method.