Benefits
Wear Pink Tourmaline When You Want to:
- Strengthen and become more aware of your feminine strengths.
- Find harmony with your femininity.
- Strengthen your energetic boundaries.
- Protect yourself from electromagnetic radiation (EMR).
Special Benefits for Women
- Enhances your femininity within a safe and protected space.
- Helps you find harmony with the masculine energies in your life.
- Helps you balance your own feminine and masculine energies.
- Helps you feel more balanced during hormonal cycles.
“I am wearing the Pink Tourmaline. I have been totally consumed by this necklace and its energy since we talked about it. My body is “loving and welcoming” it in a way that is charged with the exhilaration and emotions that surface when I receive an unexpected visit from a beloved friend or family member. At the same time I am experiencing soothing and supportive feelings and awareness. I know we will work well together. I will appreciate and respect the work and potential that this necklace so gracefully provides! Thank you! Thank you!”
– B.K., Arizona
When a woman wears this necklace, the shield-like protective boundary it provides can allow her to have the freedom to find harmony with her feminine and masculine aspects, and to strengthen her feminine. The energies of this necklace may also help her feel more balanced during cycles of peak hormonal activity. When Pink Tourmaline is graduated in color, it provides a spectrum of frequencies that a woman’s cells can select from as needed.
Both men and women can wear Pink Tourmaline & White Tourmaline to balance and experience their feminine energies, and to fortify the protective capabilities of their aura to shield them from electromagnetic radiation. It also helps you get to know, find harmony with, and bring forward your feminine strengths and energies. It can help you resolve issues and karma with ancestors along your maternal line.
Symbiotic White Tourmaline
Symbiotic White Tourmaline builds matrix. When paired with Pink Tourmaline, it will help you heal, build, and maintain a strong boundary around yourself to contain your own energies and to deflect the negative and overwhelming energies of others.
“The Pink Tourmaline necklace I bought has already brought me such profound movement…its very different than the Rubelle necklaces I purchased from your competitor 13 years ago, and again about 6 years ago. This sweet and unassuming little necklace has by far surpassed the other two I worked with in terms of its ability to effect in my energy field.”
– N.O., North Carolina
Pink Tourmaline & White Tourmaline Formula
The necklace consists of graduated Pink Tourmaline in a variety of colors that range from very dark pink (called Rubellite) to medium and light pink Pink Tourmaline.
Two symbiotic White Tourmaline gems are placed in the front.
Rubellite is one gemstone that should not be worn as a solid necklace by itself because it can block life-giving energies from reaching the body. We add a range of Pink Tourmaline colors, plus White Tourmaline. This allows Rubellite to build its auric shield while allowing healthy energy flows to continue moving.
How to Use
This necklace is an excellent companion to the graduated Green Tourmaline & Tektite. A couple may use these necklaces to grow their relationship, gain a more insightful understanding of their reasons for being together, and enhance their intimacy. One partner in the relationship should wear Pink Tourmaline & White Tourmaline; and the other should wear the Green Tourmaline & Tektite.
If they wear these necklaces when issues arise, the gemstones will give them the support to recognize and resolve them, so that they can continue to grow in greater harmony and love.
General Guidelines
Wearing therapeutic gemstone jewelry around your neck or on your wrist or ears is by far the easiest way to enjoy their healing benefits. Therapeutic gemstones may also be applied on the body as a poultice, or applied in the aura strung on a therapy wand.
Backstory
Wearing Tourmaline and Gender
Twenty-five years ago when I first learned about Green and Pink Tourmaline it was made very clear that Green Tourmaline was for men and Pink Tourmaline for women. A lot has changed in a generation and it seems we have turned a corner, because this hard line is disappearing. Maybe it’s because it is becoming okay to admit we have both a masculine and feminine side to our nature, and to develop each of them. Or maybe it’s because we’re now working with the symbiotics of these gemstones.
I am so grateful to my woman customers who urged me to sell them Green Tourmaline & Tektite. I admire their courage to explore their masculine energies. Finally I tried wearing it myself. What an interesting journey! Nurturing the masculine part of me did not make me feel more aggressive or powerful, as I expected might happen. But I did feel more capable of asserting myself and standing up for my beliefs. I realized that I could accept others’ viewpoints without having to agree with them. I also feel stronger inside. In learning to balance the feminine and masculine aspects of myself, I’m feeling more in touch with my spiritual self, which feels neutral—neither feminine nor masculine. I also believe my feminine nature is becoming stronger, too.
If a woman wants to try Green Tourmaline, I suggest she work with a necklace or bracelet that has a variety of green colors. This is beneficial because it provides a spectrum of Green Tourmaline frequencies. Her energy field will pick and choose among these frequencies as needed in any given moment.
Likewise, it is perfectly fine for men to explore their feminine nature, and enhance the strength of nurturing. If they wish to use a tool to help them on this journey of self-discovery, they could try Pink Tourmaline & White Tourmaline.
Purposes
Pink Tourmaline & White Tourmaline and Green Tourmaline & Tektite :: Restore Creative Vitality
Energetic Principle
The masculine and feminine energies that flow through both men and women are a key component of a healthy relationship. At the most fundamental level, these energies combine to enable pro-creation. On a day-to-day basis they keep positive energy flowing between a couple. They thwart the stagnation and apathy that can stifle the flame of an otherwise good marriage.
Bringing Pink Tourmaline and Green Tourmaline along with their symbiotic gemstones into your relationship can help infuse it with more masculine and feminine energy, balance these two flows, and increase the vitality they provide.
Masculine and Feminine Energies
Masculine and feminine energies exist in both men and women and in nearly equal measure—despite gender. Which one is expressed dominantly is determined by one’s physical anatomy.
Indeed, everyone has masculine and feminine qualities. Both have their strengths and their vulnerabilities. Together they combine to fuel the flow of creativity in a person. This creativity can be funneled anywhere the partners put their attention, whether it be toward business, the arts, or the relationship.
At the beginning of a relationship, the masculine and feminine flows tend to come in strongly, as each partner wants to impress the other and gain affection. In a healthy relationship, these flows eventually find a unique balance that fits the individuals involved. The partners find a way to customize the amount of masculine and feminine energies generated by the relationship, as well as the relative amounts of each. The balance they find allows them to express themselves in safety and trust.
Masculine and feminine flows are inherently creative. Having sex will release and strengthen these flows. But so will other activities. The creativity inherent in the masculine and feminine synergy can inspire new ways to please, to provide for, and to enjoy life with your partner. Acts of kindness and generosity are born when the thoughts behind them are inspired by love.
Imbalances in Masculine and Feminine Energies
A reduction in the masculine and feminine flows can cause relationship stagnation. The partners lose interest in their togetherness. They think of their own needs before those of the relationship. They start counting who gives and who receives, as though keeping a tally of who owes what.
Another problem can occur when instead of funneling the relationships’ masculine and feminine energies toward the partnership, each one directs it selfishly into their own endeavors to fill their own needs. The problem here is that unless the relationship is nourished, the source of this creative flow will dry up.
Pink and Green Tourmaline to Restore Relationship Vitality
One cause of relationship apathy and loss of interest is the reduction of masculine and feminine energies flowing through the partners. Whether Pink Tourmaline or Green Tourmaline can help correct this is largely an intuitive decision. People tend to be drawn to one more so than the other, and very clearly so.
Both men and women can wear either Pink or Green Tourmaline. Trading off who wears which is an effective way to break up unhealthy patterns and bring new flows of creative energy into the relationship.
Diamond Level 2 student –
I have a female body, and this necklace helps me with headaches and other biochemistry when my hormones are out of whack. I live how it builds protection and definition in the aura, and it often comes in if I have to meet someone not entirely honest or well-meaning for example at work. It also often comes in to support Diamond clients in their sessions if they have an intention where the feminine is involved. It doesn’t matter if the client is male or female.